I look like a dumbass, so that's why I cut off my pictures from the neck up. 
Spot on.Considering that most people here like to opine without posting photos at all, I think there's only so much room for criticism.
Some of the most opinionated, set in stone rules kind of people here I have never once seen a photo of. I don't know how that speaks of them.Considering that most people here like to opine without posting photos at all, I think there's only so much room for criticism.
It means that while I dress well, I don't have a photographer on call, and I'm not about to post a photo of myself in the bathroom mirror like I was cruising for sex on Craigslist.Some of the most opinionated, set in stone rules kind of people here I have never once seen a photo of. I don't know how that speaks of them.
I don't think they use mirrors.It means that while I dress well, I don't have a photographer on call, and I'm not about to post a photo of myself in the bathroom mirror like I was cruising for sex on Craigslist.
That was nice to say about me. :icon_smile_big:Call me naive, but I always thought that it was to focus attention on the matter at hand (the clothing) that would otherwise be distracted by the blazing beauty of the wearer:icon_smile_big:
Wrong. People post pictures to show themselves in their clothing, else everything would look as unappealing as those second-hand goods laid out on the bed in the Trad Thrift Store Exchange.Who cares. Why does it matter? People post pictures to show us their clothing.
I think this is caution to the extreme. It's a snapshot for Christ's sake.Would you invite a random AAer into your home? I wouldn't dream of it. So why would I offer up my picture and, in essence, trust every single person who comes along with my identity? Props to those brave souls who feel comfortable doing so, but I'm not one of them.
Beresford does a good job summing it up, and makes a good point about the fact that almost no one uses his real name here. I think the forums sometimes lull us into a false sense of security/e-friendship. This often pops up in buying and selling transactions elsewhere -- "I thought I could trust him because ... " But the bottom line is that anyone can access the forums, and, as has been pointed out, information is uncontainable on the Internet.
Would you invite a random AAer into your home? I wouldn't dream of it. So why would I offer up my picture and, in essence, trust every single person who comes along with my identity? Props to those brave souls who feel comfortable doing so, but I'm not one of them.
Eh, my real-life look wouldn't play that well here anyway. You're better off with the mannequin.
I think this is caution to the extreme. It's a snapshot for Christ's sake.
(I've seen your body shots. They've all looked real good. But you're a mannequin to me. And as such your clothes have lost their personality.)
I sure do.You demonize the Internet.