Ok, it should seem pretty obvious about what to wear to a memorial service. But here is why I am asking. Wife'd grandmother, in her mid 90's passed about 8-9 months ago. She had outlived all family and friends, and was in FL, while most of family were scattered elsewhere. So at the time, really no service of any kind. Now, family has coordinated a memorial service on Thanksgiving day, in affluent small town in CT (memorial is at a church). So normally I think of funeral, and would wear my most somber dark tones (which I dont really have). But I am wondering if somehow it is different since it is a stand-alone memorial service, so many months later. Its really a celebration of her life than a sad rememberance, so I think. I'm not saying I would wear anything loud or inappropriate. I have plenty of suits and sportcoats, but its my ties. About the most conservative ties I have are repp stripes. I seem to have more teal blues, yellows, golds, bold stripes, etc. What would be appropriate for this type of gathering, on Thanksgiving day? Thanks much.