I see that my 'nothing wrong with black' post was quite controversial. I hope it was not too offensive to the fashion world.
For my own curiosity, here are some situations where clients contact us in interest of black suits for certain occasions. If not too troublesome, an explanation of why this is incorrect would be interesting; I would be happy to pass onto my future prospective clients:
1. Saturday night in 'the city,' going out with friends to a nice dinner/lounge/etc. Given the complexion of the person would work well with black, and that a suit, as opposed to other garb, is their first choice.
2. Weddings: we sell far more suits than tuxedos for grooms/groomsmen. Why is entirely different conversation. Grooms prefer the black suit over any other colour for the formality (my guess).
Why would a black suit be wrong for these situations? Please skip the limo driver jokes, already heard those lines in this thread. If you're going to mock, please make it witty and/or funny.
The title "Fashion Forum" is a bit of a misnomer, as the focus of most of us here is style. Used here, style is the distillation of principles of traditional Anglo-American mens wear as established between the wars by the example of a set of aristocratic, or wealthy, or well know men who were generally accepted as the best dressed men in the world, of whom the duke of Windsor is the best known. It was a time of sartorial "trickle down".
Fashion, on the other hand is ephemeral. Fashion comes and goes, hot one year, cold soon after. The wide ties and lapels of the 70s, leisure suits, and Nehru jackets are some of the most notorious examples of fashion. Today fashion comes from the young ,and from designers who want, and need to be different.
Style evolves. The process has been compared with evolution, there are many fashion mutations and some survive. The leisure suit is an example of a failed mutation. The period between the wars was one that saw the evolution from the style that existed before WWI into what is now traditional Anglo American style. George V wore a frock coat. His son developed modern black tie, soft collared shirts and all. Introducing the elements of black tie was an example of fashion, but fashion that survived and became a part of the Anglo-American cannon.
There is nothing inherently wrong with black suits, indeed black was the tradition in the 19th century. But here black suits, and skinny suits, and short jacket suits that fail to completely cover the wearer's rear and low rise pants worn low on the hips are seen here as just fashion, fashion outside traditional Anglo-American style.
It is acknowledged here that black suits and black shirts are fine for clubbing. Some women like men in black, and being attractive to women is the very purpose of going clubbing. But effectiveness in attracting young women does not equate with style.
Again we are in an era of sartorial trickle down. That more black suits are worn at weddings does not equate with style, it is just popularity, a popularity that has trickled down from young singers and actors who wear whatever their stylists choose.
There is nothing "wrong" with a man wearing the choices of designers and stylists, eg black suits, any more than it be wrong for a man to hang throughout his house prints from the best selling artist of our times,Thomas Kincade.
I appreciate that you are a merchant and will do better selling what is popular. Fashion sells better than style. I see from your site that for a time you went to school in Ann Arbor. If during you time there you stopped in Van Boven's you saw a store that for the most part sold traditional men's wear. It is this traditional Anglo- American men's wear that is the heart and soul of this forum.
A final note. On your web site you purport to give advise as to what is, and what is not, correct wedding attire. My problem with your site is that you conflate fashion and style, popularity and tradition. Your advise is all fashion and popularity. That's OK if you make it clear that that is what you are doing. But you don't. The consequence is that a reader who is looking for the traditional ensemble will not find it clearly set out and will wind up with an ensemble more worthy of a prom night than a traditional wedding. Take a look at the Black Tie Guide website
https://www.blacktieguide.com/ where it is clear, in a not judgmental way, what is traditional and what is fashion forward. Men may choose to wear whatever they want, for weddings and otherwise, but at the same time they have the right to know the difference between the fashion of the moment and the style of tradition.