[SG_67]

Given that it’s a work environment and these are women making the remarks, just stay quiet.

To do otherwise is an invitation to be the next #MeToo poster boy.

 

[SG_67]

I had a female coworker reach down and rub my suede chukkas today. Talk about odd.

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Suede chukka? Is that what we're calling IT now?

 

[SG_67]

I don't see how a discussion about the level of formality of clothes would ever lead to this. Not unless he says: "You're right. I am overdressed" and then proceeds to remove all his clothes.

Are you willing to bet your career on this? I'm being totally serious. Perhaps not the place to discuss this but we live in a different world now.

A well dressed man exudes toxic masculinity, no? Disagree and I'll label you as someone who perpetuates male dominance and intimidation at work.

 

[SG_67]

I believe the exchanges above relating to the word “soy” as being racially offensive prove the overall tone of this thread.

Too many people stand ready to be offended by anything and anyone. Made up racial insensitivity is just as good an excuse as a well dressed gentleman.

 

[SG_67]

By the way, referencing the definitive guide for modern language and it's application, Urban Dictionary, Soy Boy is defined as such:

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Soy Boy

No mention of racial insensitivity.