So after reading AAAC for a while, and what with starting a new suit-oriented job, I've been revamping my footwear, on as much of a budget as seems right.
I thrifted a few pairs of AE shoes (Park Aves and Stockbridges) and they felt very very comfortable, even though they were way too long, yet narrow.
So, I thought I had found Nirvana when I entered an AE factory store in Freeport, and had the sales guy's attentions for almost an hour, trying to get fitted for a shoe. He carefully measured each one with a Brannock device, and found me to be a 9-9.5 D.
I tried on many different shoes in my size trying to recapture the great feel of the silly long park aves, but with no luck (and I could not pay full retail at that point).
I finally found a nice pair of one-off, executive soled Park Aves in 9, with an E width that was affordable. I was concerned that they might be too small, but he showed me the lasts in comparison and there was indeed little difference between a 9.5D and a 9E. They were comfortable enough in the store, and it was late in the day, and I had done quite a bit of walking, so I thought I had done the thing proper.
After wearing them all day at work, it was horrible. My toes hurt, the balls of my feet hurt, and it took me a week to get up the courage to try them again... and with the same result. Man I love the way they look though.
So, despite being carefully measured, the only thing that my feet like are shoes that are way too long. And Eccos, though I hate to say it, it's embarrassing, but the fit of them is wonderful, like they are made for my feet. Are my feet just too weird? Is it not possible to get a nice pair of dress shoes that fit? Should I suck it up and keep wearing blocky old Eccos with my suits and hope no one notices? One can't really experiment with pricey shoes, I'm looking for an authoratative person to say "Yes, sometimes it's okay to wear shoes that are way too big, if they feel right."
Or they might say something else. Who knows, I'm at a loss as to what to do next.
I thrifted a few pairs of AE shoes (Park Aves and Stockbridges) and they felt very very comfortable, even though they were way too long, yet narrow.
So, I thought I had found Nirvana when I entered an AE factory store in Freeport, and had the sales guy's attentions for almost an hour, trying to get fitted for a shoe. He carefully measured each one with a Brannock device, and found me to be a 9-9.5 D.
I tried on many different shoes in my size trying to recapture the great feel of the silly long park aves, but with no luck (and I could not pay full retail at that point).
I finally found a nice pair of one-off, executive soled Park Aves in 9, with an E width that was affordable. I was concerned that they might be too small, but he showed me the lasts in comparison and there was indeed little difference between a 9.5D and a 9E. They were comfortable enough in the store, and it was late in the day, and I had done quite a bit of walking, so I thought I had done the thing proper.
After wearing them all day at work, it was horrible. My toes hurt, the balls of my feet hurt, and it took me a week to get up the courage to try them again... and with the same result. Man I love the way they look though.
So, despite being carefully measured, the only thing that my feet like are shoes that are way too long. And Eccos, though I hate to say it, it's embarrassing, but the fit of them is wonderful, like they are made for my feet. Are my feet just too weird? Is it not possible to get a nice pair of dress shoes that fit? Should I suck it up and keep wearing blocky old Eccos with my suits and hope no one notices? One can't really experiment with pricey shoes, I'm looking for an authoratative person to say "Yes, sometimes it's okay to wear shoes that are way too big, if they feel right."
Or they might say something else. Who knows, I'm at a loss as to what to do next.