I can see your point but echo others in saying that it isn't a huge deal. It does sound like the tailor that your using, while I'm sure excellent, is offering a "sophisticated MTM" if you will rather than bespoke. Ideally the only adjustment that would need to be done on any custom jacket is the sleeve length, but suppressing the sides is a common and easy alteration. It shouldn't compromise other aspects of the jacket's fit that were fine-tuned by the custom process. Plus - like someone else said, the first one is almost always a bit of a gamble. Your next order from this guy should come out spot-on right off.