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There are several older threads on the subject but nothing recent. I can see from those older threads the vast majority were against wearing lapel pins, several strongly so.

With that in mind, I'm admitting I like lapel pins, but for a specific reason that may seem a little, well, odd.

Late last year, for the second time in five years, I was laid off due to a company-wide reorganization. That smarts when it happens once in a lifetime, let alone twice in a relatively short time span. My last employer was an insurance company. In a lot of ways, it was a dream job for an Ask Andy type. The dress code for my role was minimum sport jacket/slacks, and two times a week I was required to wear a suit. I was able to get some great use out of my business wardrobe, and I was happy I had made the investment in some decent clothes.

The company has a logo that translated well into a nice, classy yet subtle lapel pin that I was encouraged to wear. I did so, almost daily, for the time I was there.

The other week I was checking out my suits and noticed that I still had a company lapel pin on one of them. It hurt to look at, and felt that I had been kicked out of a club. I swiftly removed it. I decided that I still liked the look, but that I wanted something that represented me, rather than a fickle organization.

I went online, and purchased a fairly small, circular gold lapel pin with my initials on it. I won't wake up one day and find that it isn't mine anymore (unless I lose it.🤔) Also, while it may seem strange of affected to many, I had never once been asked about my employer's lapel pin, whether it was noticed or not. So I don't expect anyone to notice my personalized one either.

Do you like lapel pins? Seems to me they are not very popular with forum members, save for special occasions or political events. I think a discreet, tasteful lapel pin really adds some visual interest for me.
 
I am sorry for the pain associated with the job. I hope great things are ahead. I rather like lapel pins myself. I wore my Texas Commerce Bancshares pin proudly for many years, and during phase two of my career, in state government, I wore a flag pin. I also have a small St. Andrew's cross for the Brotherhood of St. Andrew.
 
I'm not a "lapel-pin wearer" myself, though I have some (from various organizations and so on). I suppose I'd wear them in an environment in which useful information might be conveyed to people (like at a conference or the like). I could see wearing such at a formal diplomatic or awards ceremony, as well?

Mostly I shy away from signifiers, though; I never place those "university" signs on car windows, bumper stickers, or ever place political signs in my yard. Flying below radar is my thing, I guess!

That said, I've never thought ill of someone I've seen wearing lapel pins, and I appreciate the pride or interest that they represent; I have an old family friend, a very dapper fellow seldom seen without suit and tie, who is a retired Marine corps officer, and he is never absent his Marine Corps lapel pin (the globe with the anchor and eagle) and a campaign pin, and it says something about his history and character without seeming "superfluous" (pic attached).

DH

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I like lapel pins. I have 3 pins that I alternate. One is a simple silver rose, maybe an inch in length. I also have a small portland trailblazer pin, which is my favorite NBA team. The last one is a pin from my Kiwanis club. I've been playing with the idea of getting the JFK pin, which is a small PT109 ship in either silver or gold. A little piece of history for 40 bucks or so on ebay.
 
I'm not a "lapel-pin wearer" myself, though I have some (from various organizations and so on). I suppose I'd wear them in an environment in which useful information might be conveyed to people (like at a conference or the like). I could see wearing such at a formal diplomatic or awards ceremony, as well?

Mostly I shy away from signifiers, though; I never place those "university" signs on car windows, bumper stickers, or ever place political signs in my yard. Flying below radar is my thing, I guess!

That said, I've never thought ill of someone I've seen wearing lapel pins, and I appreciate the pride or interest that they represent; I have an old family friend, a very dapper fellow seldom seen without suit and tie, who is a retired Marine corps officer, and he is never absent his Marine Corps lapel pin (the globe with the anchor and eagle) and a campaign pin, and it says something about his history and character without seeming "superfluous" (pic attached).

DH

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After retiring from the USAF, similar to your family friend, I wore the lapel pins (one at a time) that came with several of the medal sets that had been presented to me. Eventually, I stopped doing that...not sure why. In any event, it's irrelevant, as I don't seem to wear suits any more and have no lapel to pin them on! LOL. ;)
 
I work for an insurance company and have to wear suits when I attend depositions, mediations, settlement conferences, and trials.

I’ve run a number of marathons, each of them for the military charity, The Fisher House Foundation. The charity gave me a Fisher House lapel pin which I wore regularly and with pride. It quite often prompted inquiries from the attorneys, judges and business associates as to what the pin represented.

That provided me the opportunity to inform them of all the excellent work Fisher House does for our veterans in their time of need. I loved that the pin helped me to spread Fisher House’s message, and even secure some donations to them for my races.
 
Lapel pins seem to be a very American affectation - I don't recall any other Britons wearing them (though I am prepared to be corrected). I wouldn't dream of wearing one.
Lord knows one is not allowed to wear anything a Briton does not wear.

Although someone needs to tell all those folks with OBE's that their rosette's are American affectations when they thought they were British insignia of honor and that they as Britons can't wear them.
 
I wear from time to time a small rosette of the Society of the Cincinnati on a jacket lapel and once or twice a year another member will recognize it and we will have something to talk about. Or at least we would have in groups of a hundred or more like we had in years past pre covid.
"Rosette:
The Rosette is worn only on informal occasions in the left lapel of a blazer or sack suit provided that no other insignia is worn at the same time. It is never worn with formal evening dress. During inclement weather, on occasions of ceremony, it may be placed on the lapel of an overcoat for identification."
 
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